Seriously! D/Lg is a way for adults to interact.

Itā€™s vacation season so hereā€™s a vacation analogy. Adults who like to go to Six Flags or Disneyland dont think theyā€™re children. They just like the rides and spectacle and maybe they have a sense of nostalgia.

Adults who read Harry Potter arenā€™t pretending to be children. Singles groups that throw ā€œPromsā€ donā€™t wish they were still in high school. They mostly enjoy using their imaginations and maybe they have a sense of nostalgia.

Similarly adults who like D/Lg donā€™t wish they were children or parents. They enjoy the terms and dynamics of age play and maybe they have a sense of nostalgia.

Point being itā€™s a nostalgic fetish not a transgression one.