Why do you want to even pretend to have sex with a child?
Thank you for asking that question but why, exactly, would I even want to pretend to have sex with a child?
So. Little 101 on D/Lg here for newcomers. Answers #9 and #10 will surprise you.
1) Just like a little kid doesnât become an adult when they play âdress upâ in grownup clothes, grown-ass adults donât become children when they play âdress upâ in cute outfits.
2) Anyone who thinks you can mistake an adult human beingâs body with that of a small child or even a teenager has never been a parent or cared for an actual child.
3) Ditto for anyone who thinks an adult human being with a Little kink really thinks, acts, or has the same motivations, emotions, or degrees of interaction.
4) This oneâs actually really important: most Littles arenât donât âregressâ to childhood, or suck on lollipops or pacifiers, wear diapers, or talk baby talk. Yeah, there are some and they might be the most visible or most easily caricatured. But as with most stereotypes they donât represent most Littles. Whether it makes it any âbetterâ for the anon is an open question, but far more Littles are more of a âcome home to Daddyâ attitude. In other words most Littles âregressâ to… adulthood! Â
5) Similarly, most Daddies arenât into Littles who âregressâ to childhood.
6) Shorter #4 & #5: most Littles see themselves as adults, not children; most Daddies are attracted to Littles who see themselves and are adults.
7) And not to be a total disappointment for your lurid stereotyping, but among those Littles who do regress, most of them are non-sexual when theyâre in âLittle spaceâ and quite a few â24/7âł Littles arenât sexual at all!
8) Shorter #7: Most D/Lg sex isnât âpretending to be a child having sexâ or âpretending to have sex with a childâ at all.
9) Speaking of which, nice way to erase the agency of adult Littles. Given the relative distribution of âDaddiesâ to âLittlesâ you might want to go fine one of the thousands and thousands of Little blogs and ask âWhy do you even want to pretend to be a child having sex?â
10) Youâll seriously have to go ask a Little that question, not least because Iâd be an asshole if I tried to ascribe anyone elseâs motivations, wouldnât I? With any luck one of them will be generous and give you a considerate, well thought out answer. Â
11) That doesnât mean that in practice Littles and Daddies (or other CareGiver types because Littles arenât only drawn to Daddies) donât roleplay tropes and cliches of age play. And if youâre triggered by age play I can see how that would bother you, the same way that many other roleplaying games can bother people when it cuts to close to home for them.
Thank you for asking the question. Everyone in their right mind should be vigilant for and critical of anything that would encourage sexual interaction with non-adults. Yes, itâs criminal to do so, and yes itâs also morally and ethically wrong, and yes in neither legal nor cognitive terms is it possible for a minor to give consent. But more importantly, when adults have sex with minors it almost always fucks up the minorâs ability to have meaningful sexual and romantic relationships for the rest of their lives. Ted Bundy notoriously asked âwhatâs the life of one girl out of billionsâ and the only possible answer was âinfinitely more than yours, you fucking monster.â Sameâs true of any adult who imagines thereâs âno harmâ in having sex with minors.