Do you think men (preferably older) care about the color of pussy? Because all I’m seeing is mostly pink pussy and because of my ethnicity I have grey in my pussy. Have you ever thought of it?
This is an excellent question. And I’m going to dodge it a little bit by saying that age probably doesn’t have much to do with men’s preferences.
I’m going to dodge a little bit more by saying that OMG human beings are all over the map but porn is as homogenized as reconstituted skim milk.
Allegedly true fact: thanks to extremely weird local censorship regulations (Australia, Japan, Indonesia, for instance) and because international markets are so important to the porn industry, some of the larger companies allegedly wrote photoshop scripts to “resculpt” model’s vulvas to hide pubic hair, visible inner labia, to lighten their skin overall, and to shade their vulvas to match the color of the skin on their thighs or abdomens. Why would they write such a thing? To save time because they had to do it to every. single. photo. Or else run the risk of getting banned or blocked… somewhere.
Point being that even if your ethnicity is far-northern European there’s a non-zero chance your vulva could be any number of non-”pink” color. Or colors!
Note: for some reason nobody seems to freak out similarly about penises so you’ll see way more color and texture variation for those in porn. So guess what? Vulvas and penises grow from the same embryonic tissue. So all the variation you see in men in porn is also 100% present in women. When they’re not filtered.
So! With all that Daddy’splaining out of the way now I can answer your actual question.
Most men with a little experience in real life, including not just older but younger men, are going to recognize that no matter what your ethnicity you’re likely to have more color variation than they see in porn. Especially mainstream porn.
I’d warn you that if you’re “ethnic” some of them will make some kind of goddamn stereotyped fetish out of you. If so then tell them to come back when they’ve got that shit sorted out. (Even “positive” racism is still racism,” right?) But most of them are going to be totally fine. Quite a few will just be happy that you’re willing to let them see, touch, taste, or generally be with you at all.
Oh, last tip might be to search for some of the “GoneWild” subreddits on… well… Reddit. The GoneWild subreddits tend to be heavily moderated, body positive, respectful, and they require that all content be posted by the person or people in the photos. There are a number of sub-subreddits for and about people from specific parts of the world or people who are descended from different ethnicities. Since you only say “my ethnicity” I can’t really Google up a subreddit where you could see people who look like you and not like Barbie and Ken. But there are quite a few.
Oh, and final, final note: we live in a broad culture that rains hell down on women about their bodies and body images. The result is that very, very, very few women are afraid there’s something wrong or ugly about their vulvas. This is particularly likely if you’re a heterosexual woman since it’s possible you won’t consider any vulvas particularly attractive. The homogenization in porn only makes this worse. Worrying about color, or shape, or hair, or symmetry, or… well… basically everything that normal humans actually look like is pretty common. While, meanwhile, most men who are attracted to women are likely to think you look just fine.
I hope I’ve helped a little bit. It’s a great question so thank you. And best of luck!
