Everyone talks as though penis-in-vagina sex was the most natural thing in the world. Eh. Sure. For humans walking, throwing a rock, and talking are all totally ânaturalâ but we donât do any of those things perfectly the first time either.
Thatâs not a problem, by the way. Itâs a lot of fun learning. Unless you think youâve failed if it doesnât go perfectly first time every time.
Take your time. Work together. Donât leave (unintended) bruises. Donât blame yourself or your partner. But also donât give up.