It doesn’t always have to be about sex ☺️

doe–lita:

ofc not dd/lg is like 7% about sex  

7% for sex and overt sexual activity might even be a little high – about an hour and 40 minutes every day.

Breakdown for the rest of then non-sex parts of D/Lg

  • Making meals and  eating  feeding you bites of anything you don’t steal off my plate
  • Brushing your hair and your teeth
  • Wiping toothpaste suds off your chin because you talk and forget to spit and just generally drool
  • Giving you a shower and toweling you dry
  • Getting you dressed
  • Helping you decide what you’re going to wear and helping you get dressed
  • Telling you what you’re going to wear because seriously, you can’t wear that to work, and choosing what you’re going to wear
  • Making you wear it when you start making a fuss
  • Turning you over my knee because you’re not cooperating, pulling down the panties that were your super favorite yesterday and you made a fuss because they were in the laundry and now they’re clean and you don’t like them anymore…
  • Spanking your cute little butt till it glows
  • Noticing you’re ridiculously wet because of course you are
  • Spending the rest of the day’s 7% that really is about sex doing Teh Sex things
  • Spending another 7% cuddling and snuggling
  • Saying “That was awesome, thank goodness we set the alarm clock early this morning!”
  • Getting up with a sigh and cooperating to get out of the house to do adult shit because we’re both adults and that’s what adult D/Lg and every other kind of kinksters still need to do the other 86% of the time they’re not having sex and cuddling!
  • Plus texting lots of purple hearts and emojis during the day, and photos a friend showed one of us of the cute fox kits they saw while camping over the weekend, because that’s not even a little bit sexual but it’s still very D/Lg…