It’s like yeah I wanna be told what to do and held down and punished. I want to be your fucktoy and your property. Get collared and teased. But I also wanna be your cuddle buddy that you binge watch shows with and eat some junk food then fall asleep together. And when we wake up we just stare at each other knowing that we are so adorable and I can make you breakfast.
@redbeardeddevil Everyday of our life!!
See? This is what real D/S and real kink in general is all about. A relationship where you also do kinky things. It’s not that you can’t be in your kink 24/7 – in that way it’s no different than surfers who schedule themselves around the tides or a skiers who opens their shop at 10:00 so they can always catch early morning runs in fresh powder. But even the most avid hobbyists also have a life with their partners!
Hard spankings or handcuffs, sure, but also breakfast together and yard-sales and “let’s clean up and binge the next season of Arrested Development.”
