Sorry bur you are a Dom. How can you like missionary? You have like hundreds other positions more domly than that.
There is nothing “Domly” about any particular position, you gormless buffoon.
Wait. What? “How can you like missionary?” Seriously?
I’m thinking about all the (equally mistaken!) Doms and Subs who imagine that there’s something wrong with positions where the Sub is on top!
Leaves me wondering what positions, exactly, would be left? Because nice as rear-entry sex can be, any position gets boring if it’s the only one you’re “supposed” to use.
Besides, the “missionary” position is an anchor position in of the oldest Dominant, orgasm-denial positions in kink history!
Let’s not forget that the same Victorians mindset that cooked up birching, corsets, and St. Andrews Crosses also cooked up the lights out, man on top, till male ejaculation only, for reproduction only with no oral, no anal, no “foreplay,” virtually no aftercare, is one of the most deeply restrictive, strictly limiting, stylized, and high-protocol “Missionary” style of human sexuality.
Just because lots of people do it only means the grimly unhealthy and repressed (i.e. “kinked”) proponents were better at propaganda than their peers.
“Missionary” position was promoted specifically for orgasm denial! Mainly by 19th Century physicians in the English-speaking world who believed and reported in medical journals that male ejaculation was harmful. That “as many as 10 ejaculations a year, during normal hetero intercourse with one’s lawfully wedded spouse,” could kill a healthy man.
They publicly fretted, with their bare faces hanging out, that women who enjoyed sex were thoughtlessly subjecting their husbands to tuberculosis, cancer, anemia, insanity, and death.
So they promoted missionary with minimal romance or foreplay as a way to diminish or outright extinguish women’s enjoyment.
Like I say, fetish-y as hell.
In reality, though, face to face sex can be awesome, in D/S, certainly in D/Lg, and even in M/S and S&M.
If you’re topping someone then rising over their helpless body, keeping their thighs apart with your hips, covering them with your weight, and looking down at them as you take your pleasure is a perfectly dominant thing to do.
Just gonna close with the old cliché that if you’re bored you might be boring.
