Thanks for being better than just a good daddy -you’re a GREAT daddy and an asset to the kink community at large. Thank you for always validating those who need it, and giving thoughtful answers to those seeking advice. If I’d stumbled across this blog as a young women I would have short-cutted through a lot of BS in my life. I’m glad it’s a resource for young people (and everyone else). Love you boo.
Thanks so much for your kind words.
You want to know why I write the things I do? It’s because if I’d stumbled across this blog as a young man I’d have short-cutted through a lot of the BS in my life too!
So for pretty much everything I’ve said I can point to a bump, a scar, a heartbreak, a catastrophic mistake, or a time when I was a giantic fucking gaslighting asshole and say “yeah, that was a very bad idea, let’s not do that again.”
To be human is to learn from your own mistakes. To be civilized is to learn from other people’s mistakes.
If I can help anyone else become that kind of civilized I’ll be very, very happy.
Thanks again, so much. I really appreciate it.
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