When/how did you find out that you were a Daddy? I really like your blog. I’m currently going through exam season and I have been so stressed, but every time I read your blog it always puts a smile on my face. Thank you.

Thanks for your kind words!

I was probably always a Daddy, even when I was a little boy.  But I didn’t hear about D/Lg, or at least didn’t register it, until a few years ago.  It’s funny because while I’m fairly mild-mannered in life I’ve been attracted to caregiving/helping/teaching sorts of roles.  In bed I discovered kink with a series of partners over the years.  I was always clearly a top, and happy to do sadistic things with cheerful masochists, I thought that meant I was a Dom.  

I… wasn’t.  You sort of need to want to tell people what to do and I don’t.  I want to support and nurture people and help them discover and achieve their goals.  

Then a beautiful, wonderful, delightfully kinky extremely-long-distance partner slowly introduced me to the idea that she might be a Little.  All the stereotypes I’d picked up that everyone else had kind of melted away.  It doesn’t have to be about diapers.  It isn’t at all about incest or minors.  And the more I learned the more comfortable I felt.  It was like coming home!

I’m not your Daddy, obviously, but as A Daddy I’m always happy to help with someone’s schoolwork, however I can.  Good luck with your exams, anon. 

Thanks again.

And good luck to everyone else stressed by exams, or work, or family, or life in general.