all the guys ive been with have been so greedy so i have never actually gotten to sit down in front of a dick and actually explore it the way I want to, its always dictated by them like do this and do that amd facefucking and sometimes i didnt even want to. i just want to be with a nice guy and i want to feel a desire for his body and get to touch him and taste him because i want to, the way i want to, not unwillingly be dictated by him. is that crazy?
not crazy at all having sex is like being part of a team, you should be striving towards the benefit of everyone involved
it takes two to tango, and if both of y’all ain’t getting what they want then what the fucks the point?
Ok. Look. Doesn’t matter how ding-dang-diddly Domly you are, if you’ve got a dick… and a body for that matter… you’ve got to give your sweetie a chance to get to know you like this.
As a near-obligate top this lesson was unbelievably hard to learn, by the way. But someone said “let me do this, I need you to.” And so I did. But it turned out to be so worth it that I can honestly say I wasn’t a good lover till I let her discover me.
Because we can get so tied up (haha) with our notions about CNC and domination and power exchanging and (for us D/Lg types) “Daddy knows best,” plus 10,000 gendered jokes it’s easy to forget that our partners actively want us too!
Kinky partners are still partners!
