Can a little have two Daddies? Do you think it could work? Would you ever consider it? I’m having a hard time these two guys I’ve dated but love me and wanna be my daddy but both are so different in their ways.

bearded-daddy:

I think you’re grown and you can do whatever makes you happy. As long as you’re not cheating and as long as they know about it and are okay with it, and that’s what you want, I say go for it. Personally though, I would never consider something like that. That’s not for Me. I am way too territorial and possessive to share someone so precious. It maybe old fashioned but I still very much believe in monogamy and marriage. Just the way I am. Good luck to you though…

Awesome answer from @bearded-daddy.  The short answer is yes, of course!

But because I’m one of those dad’splaining Daddies here’s a long answer too.

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This might confuse people who mistakenly believe D/Lg has anything to do with actual incest, or folks who imagine that Littles are straight women exist only as the property of a dominant Daddy.

But really, D/Lg is a kink, not a relationship status.  Yes, most Littles and Daddies are monogamous, but only because most people in general are monogamous.  But some people are polyamorous, aren’t they?  And since Littles are people, and especially since “Little” is its own kink, it makes sense that there’d be about as many poly Littles as poly anybody else.

This is sort of a gendered question though, isn’t it?  You’d rarely hear someone ask if a Daddy could have two Littles, right?  So why would anyone be surprised to hear that a Little had two Daddies?

It gets even more gendered when people just assume all Littles are women and all Daddies are men.  But that’s not true either, is it?  No, it’s not true at all.

It gets even more gendered when people just assume that Daddies and Littles are all monogamous and heterosexual.  It’s not all that unusual to see D/Lg poly triad relationships with a Daddy, a Mommy, and a Little girl.  So it wouldn’t be surprising to see a triad with a Daddy, another Daddy, and a Little boy, would it?  No, that wouldn’t be surprising either!