Do you like being dominated and objectified?
yes but obvi only in a kink scene or something, iâve been sent messages where someone was trying to dom me and called me âslutâ when i tried to say that i would rather talk first and i donât care for that shit /at all/
This! The biggest goddamn mistake people make is imagining that something you enjoy during sex with a partner would be just as enjoyable without. Or that something that turns you on when your partner does it turns you when random strangers do. Or that something that excites you when youâre horny turns you on when youâre just trying to get to work, or drop the kids off, or finish your report, or order a goddamn cup of coffee.
Consider that a lot of guys get off extra hard when their lover presses a fingertip against their asshole when theyâre coming. And yet pretty much no guy is likely to appreciate someone touching their asshole while theyâre making a presentation at work.
Sexual Domination and Submission is… um… sexual. One of the things that makes it a kink as opposed to, oh, say, âhow everyday life worksâ is that itâs shit you actively donât want to happen in regular life!
D/S happens between equal partners. If youâre not equal partners itâs not kink itâs abuse and/or codependence, criminal behavior or criminal victimization.
Being treated with animal lust by your lover is hot, being treated like an animal, um, isnât.
