 Ever notice how much mainstream/industrial porn caters to effectively prudish ideas about sexuality – that itâs painful, scary, unequal, humiliating, often unwanted, unilateral, shocking, inconsiderate, selfish, furtive, outrageous, and just plain wrong?
As opposed to, you know, fun, enjoyable, pleasurable, sensational, and just plain… well… right?
I love this image because itâs how most actual BDSM happens. Objectively speaking this looks at least as enjoyable to her as it does to him. Thatâs pretty common for actual kink relationships.
I donât agree with the common âthe Sub has all the powerâ meme, but it is the case that most genuine tops – Doms, Daddies/Mommies, Masters/Mistresses, even most sadists – do what they do for and with their partners and not just to them.
For the record this is exactly how Iâd love having you in, on, and over my lap for a spanking, teapot. My hand on your neck supporting rather than strangling you. Squeezing your cute little butt as much as spanking it. And pretending itâs an accident that my thigh is in just the right spot for you to grind against it.
If we canât both thoroughly doing kink together why bother doing kink at all?
