“He never made her do something she didn’t want to do”
Not every Sub or Masochist gets off on their top making them do what they love to do. But! As a Daddy this kind of coaxing and discovery is bread and butter.
This “made her discover” business is not, incidentally, endorsing stepping on or over anybody’s boundaries or limits! No still means no. No matter what your kinks, no always means no! If no isn’t being honored and respected then what your’e doing stops being kink and starts being inconsiderate, asshole-ish, abusive, and/or potentially legally-actionable. Kink = consent. End of sermon.
The whole point, though, is that bottoms aren’t doormats.
(Aside: On average bottoms are as intelligent and curious as their tops. And averages being averages, that means 50% of the time they’re more intelligent or curious than their tops. Topping and bottoming are kinks, not Mensa scores. End of that sermon too!)
But mmm, there’s always so much to explore inside boundaries and limits it’s rarely a problem finding new things do discover that you never imagined you’d both love doing.
