I can’t quite put my finger on it but it seems like there’s a difference between the way mainstream “BDSM” porn represents tops who are men and tops who are women.
Surely it doesn’t represent how seriously mainstream “BDSM” porn (and their mostly-male customers?) take women tops.
Ironically both the man and the woman are wearing traditional low-status servants’ clothing. Odd that the man’s wearing 21st Century janitor’s clothing while the woman’s wearing 19th Century sexworker clothes.
In real life I’ve noticed that both male and female tops wear more… ordinary clothes if they wear clothes at all.
Just going to put it out there that on top of doing a really shitty job of representing real BDSM, mainstream “BDSM” porn also does a really shitty job of representing the real dignity of tops. Women or men!