I canât quite put my finger on it but it seems like thereâs a difference between the way mainstream âBDSMâ porn represents tops who are men and tops who are women.
Surely it doesnât represent how seriously mainstream âBDSMâ porn (and their mostly-male customers?) take women tops.
Ironically both the man and the woman are wearing traditional low-status servantsâ clothing. Odd that the manâs wearing 21st Century janitorâs clothing while the womanâs wearing 19th Century sexworker clothes.
In real life Iâve noticed that both male and female tops wear more… ordinary clothes if they wear clothes at all.
Just going to put it out there that on top of doing a really shitty job of representing real BDSM, mainstream âBDSMâ porn also does a really shitty job of representing the real dignity of tops. Women or men!
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