Is it odd for a Dom to enjoy being edged? He likes for me to lay in his lap and bring him to the edge but not make him cum until the end of whatever we are watching. I enjoy it but my friend says that makes him a switch because I have the power. I’m just confused.
Bullshit. Is he directing you to edge him? Then he’s handling himself properly as a Dom.
I had a Dominant who liked me to edge him. All at his command. I had no control whatsoever.
Heh. I remember meeting a young woman who’s Dom enjoyed bondage. He evidently topped the daylights out of her after he had her bind him. He was bound hand and foot… and then had her wait on him hand and foot!
Think he was “submissive” or that she was a “switch?” Heh. Neither of them seemed to think so.
D/S is about control, isn’t it? As @instructor144 says, he directs her edge him. She gets to serve him. He gets to build up to massive orgasms… which is the whole point of edge, isn’t it?
How’s that “switching?”
