medusaofthesea:

medusaofthesea:

Honestly, one of the biggest problems in the kink community on tumblr is the minors.
You guys are trying to get away from the kink and remove kink form kitten play and ddlg, but without BDSM, it’s just being childish and being a neko.

I’m really tired of you guys trying to do that.
Like I understand liking the aesthetic of it being cute, but don’t try to classify yourself as a part of the community for these things and be like “UMM THIS ISN’T A KINK FOR ME THOUGH” because you’re coming into a kink space and and trying to make it not a kink. It doesn’t work.

And it allows minors to think it’s not a kink
It fucking is.

someone unfollowed me for this.
Good taking out the fucking trash.
Lemme make those points again.
1. DDLG/CGL is kink
2. Petplay is kink
3. MINORS DO NOT BELONG IN KINK

Just gonna put it out there that 

  • if you’re a racist you’re not doing “race play” you’re just being a racist
  • If you’re an abuser or codependent what you’re doing isn’t “BDSM” it’s abuse 
  • If you’re a rapist you’re not doing “rape play” you’re just a rapist
  • If you’re a pirate you’re not doing “pirate play” you’re a fucking pirate!

Therefore if you’re under 18 you’re not a Little you’re a minor child!  Worse, if your partner is a child you’re not a “Caregiver” you’re a pedophile.

The point being, if you get off on criminal transgressions then what you’re doing is criminal, not “kink.”  Get therapy.  Get help.  Get caught and arrested.  But don’t hide your bullshit behind what legitimate, consenting, legally-competent adults do.