One of my fav things to do when someone puts their hand around my throat is to put my hand over theirs and squeeze. It’s so cute because we’re basically holding hands, but also it’s like, yes, choke me out, and that’s my jam.
Can’t tell you how nice it is when someone does this! Kink is a team sport, willow wand. And that’s a wonderful way to let me know just how hard to squeeze.