She wears my t-shirts to bed but…

Ahahaha!  Worth remembering that it’s not just other men who police masculinity.

I think the issue for the disconnect between women wearing men’s clothes and men wearing women’s is that society continues to regard women as too passive to have fetishes or kinks.  Similarly, it considers men’s clothes to be all about functionality and women’s clothes to be all about femininity.

I’ve worn women’s underwear a couple of times, mostly to see what all the fuss is about.  It’s rarely been well received.

Certainly not compared to this…

But not even to goony dad-wear like this!