Its okay for you just a cuddling night?! Nothing sexual?!

nagual-illaine:

primalgentleman:

daddyandhislittleprincess11102:

instructor144:

Sure, straight cuddles and snuggles have their place.

Absolutely! Just cuddle, relax and recharge! I think I require this more even than Princess does.

Daddy

Why would a straight up cuddle night be off the table? Gimme the cuddles dammit! I’ll even make popcorn!

Cuddle????my????ass????to????death????!

OMG.  Cuddling’s great!  When I was about 20 or so I took a break from being massively promiscuous and spent a year doing casual hookups for no-sex sleeping.  It was awesome!  

I was pretty homeless back then, hitch-hiking around the country doing the whole wandering wastrel / starving hippie bit with long hair and a guitar on my back.  And I’d come to a realization that one of the reasons i was staying so busy hooking up was that if you had sex with someone, at least back then, you’d sleep together for the rest of the night.  And I found that there was a huge difference between the times when I’d sex but not spend the night and the times I’d spend the night but not have sex.

So even then I was a big fan of having sex because you want to have sex and not for other reasons (love, money, peer pressure, power-tripping, etc.)  And once I made that cuddling vs sex distinction, well, like I said I spent a year just “hooking up” for sleep.  I was always honest about it.  And to be honest most of the women I hooked up with were somewhere between intrigued, skeptical, and/or enthusiastic about trying it.

I went back to being my usual promiscuous self after that.  Only a year older but so much wiser!

It’s always good to know why you’re having sex.

Sex is wonderful!   But so’s cuddling!

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