dommesuggestions:

Being a male sub is punk as fuck.

Seriously. You’re giving the middle finger to every gender norm society has dictated for you, all while retaining a strong sense of self and confidence in your desires. I’m so happy you exist, because you’re all awesome. (And because I need someone who I can spank every once in a while.)

I don’t think I’ve met a male Sub who wasn’t also the bomb.  Just like most Sub women I’ve met.  Also the bomb. 

Not every Sub is cocky and confident, obviously, male or female.  That whole “alpha” business is kind entitled, tbh.  But I think there’s a certain confidence or sense of well-being that comes from “knowing your place.”  Not “place” in a class or power-exchange way but knowing what you enjoy and being fine with it.

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