Feel sorry for the folks who imagine a grudging “I guess so” is as good as it gets. Or needs to get.
Consent is, like, a basic ground-level, oxygen-in-the-room minimum requirement.
Sex isn’t like the wry airplain pilot quip that “any landing you can walk away from is a good landing.”
Sex isn’t like American-rules football where it’s ok to say “an ugly win is still a win.”
Sex – kinky no less than vanilla – is supposed to satisfy everybody. Where nobody else gets to say what “satisfied” means for anybody else.
If you don’t have not just “consent” but an excited “oh yes” then U R Doing It Rong. Or your partner is. Or both of you are.
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