daily-showerthoughts:

There is nothing about your dick that will cause a girl to be interested in you, but there might be things about you that will get her interested in your dick.

This is why dick pics don’t work as an introduction.

I’ll just add that in 2019 it’s also why “headless” breast, vulva, and ass pics don’t really work either!

Nothing wrong with any of them once you know the whole person.  Because much as I might like seeing breasts when I’m intentionally scrolling through an intentional porn site, when something pornographic shows up unannounced in my inbox or PM box it’s… just… not a great way to start a conversation.

I think the idea is “ok, let’s get this out of the way.”  Like we’re afraid our partner isn’t going to like our dick or something.  When really, 99 times out of 100 women, especially, don’t give a flying fuck about dick particulars.  Not the way (cough) men care about their dicks or and compare them to other men’s dicks.  It’s just not a thing for women.  They’re not going to accept or reject you over your dick, ok?

And while we’re at it, 99 times out of 100 men aren’t really going to accept or reject you over your boobs or labia.  

It’s not that nobody cares at all.  It’s if they’re going to be in a relationship with you then who you are is a way bigger concern than what your bits and pieces look like.