Despite the stalkerish Twilight reference and weird possessiveness, it’s just the case that poly isn’t just something men do. Same with kink. To the extent that multiple partners are acceptable for Doms or Daddies it’s equally acceptable for Subs and Littles. Adults should be and get to be… well… adult about it.
The good news is that since kinksters are people, and since most people are monogamous, most kinksters are also monogamous. The other news is that not all people are monogamous and so not all kinksters are monogamous either.
If you’re not sure how you feel, or how your partner feels, talk to them. For that matter, if you’re not sure how you feel about your partner’s partners talk to your partners! As opposed to randomly texting your partner’s partners.
