Don’t forget that Submission is its own kink, feel sorry for Doms who do…

So if you don’t think Submission is its own, independent, autonomous, and equal kink and is instead all about your masterly/mistressly domly self then try the following thought experiment: how long would they stay with you if you stopped topping them?

If they’re only Submissive because you’re Dominant the correct answer will be “forever, of course, because I’m so awesome they’re magically magnetized to me!”  If they’re Submissive because Submission is its own craving though… its own kink…

Well…

The correct answer might be something else, hmm?

This is just one of the reasons why I capitalize the S in Submissive as well as the D in Dom.