Ever been raped?
not something I wanna remember
Not to break character or anything but what the hell kind of question is that anyway?!?!?
Being a kinkster doesn’t immunize you from the short and long-term repercussions of violent criminal assault. Not even for kinksters who are into consensual non-consent.
If you’re not an experienced counselor with specific, extensive, supervised training who’s been specifically been given permission by the person who wants that help that’s just a fucked up question to ask.