Help!! My sweet boy has recently found himself in a wheelchair due to an eletrical accident and has trouble getting alot sensation below the waist now, I need help. with finding high sensation ways to play.Please reblog to any dommes that may be able to help
Holy shit, I hope theyāre okay and feeling well. Iām not well informed about this kind of thing so if there are any kinksters out there who can help, this domme and I would appreciate it a lot ????
Um… if someoneāsĀ ārecently found themselves in a wheelchairā then they and/or you should talk to their caregivers.Ā If the ask is for real Iām surprised theyĀ didnāt bring it up with him!Ā Ā
One possibility is that his injury was reallyĀ recent, in which case he may still be undergoing rehabilitative care.Ā In that case itās likely heās still in the rehab protocol and they just havenāt brought it up yet.
All nerve damage takes time to work itself out – thereās an extraordinary amount ofĀ āreroutingā that goes on, not to mention the actual process of healing tissue.Ā If he was really injured recently then itās even more important to check with his caregivers!
Meanwhile, though, you think heās the first man in this situation?Ā Think heās the first one whoās partnerās freaked out about their future sex life together?Ā Think doctors, physical therapists, occupational therapists, not to mention other paraplegics and their partners havenāt put a lot of thought into this?
GoogleĀ āsex for paraplegicsā and youāll find tons of good stuff from all kinds of sources.Ā Ā
If the patient is a Sub or Masochist thatās great, but Dom or no Dom, Sadist or no Sadist, the first step is to get their plumbing working at all again.Ā ThenĀ start working kink back into things.Ā And obviously check closely and repeatedly with their caregivers before getting up to anything involving impact play, wax, and (yeah, just donāt) Violet Wands, etc.
Oh, and finally, since heās almost certainly going to need continuing care from physical therapists and the like, heās going to need to be extremely and repeatedlyĀ clear to his caregivers that heās a consensual sexual masochist.Ā Otherwise any bruising or damage caregivers see is going to get mandatory-reporting protocoledĀ allllĀ over the place.