Notice how careful and attentive he’s being?  That’s because a good top understands that topping isn’t all about them.  Hell yes it feels great to fuck your pretty face while your body’s collapsed from your knees to the ground.  And hell yes it’s fun knowing that making the chain bob makes the clamps more intense for you.  And hell yes you’ll end up with come on your mouth.  And yeah, it might be hours before you’re finally allowed to come…

But a good top knows that Submission is about what makes you hot and wet and needy… what makes you happy… what leaves you so satisfied you want to do it again.  And again.

That’s the art of topping, isn’t it, chipmunk?  Maintaining meticulous control so we both get what we want.