Shall we dance together, if only in our dreams?

Would you like to defy gravity with me?

Shall we dance?

#4 Girl on Top
How to do it: Get on top of your partner and do your thing!

Why itā€™s a take-charge position: Well, youā€™re doing ā€œyour thing,ā€ so that definitely mean taking charge. Thereā€™s also the fact that, similar to the sideways straddle, you are completely in control of your orgasm. Thatā€™s a whole boatload of being in charge and then some.

– FromĀ 9 Sex Positions For When You Just Want To Take Charge

Or… maybe not.

Shall we dance?

Thereā€™s the kind of lap dance thatā€™s grinding your ass in a manā€™s lap to get him off.Ā  And then thereā€™s the kind where you canā€™t help grinding because your hips canā€™t keep still because…

Heaven, I’m in heaven
And my heart beats so that I can hardly speak
And I seem to find the happiness I seek
When we’re out together dancing cheek to cheek
– Frank Sinatra