It’s not to say there’s no domination or submission in D/Lg, and it’s certainly the case that there can be discipline and sometimes even bondage! But note the lower cases. Sometimes the question can be who’s exercising discipline!
For instance, what if I mentioned that you seem awfully wiggly tonight, and you insisted you weren’t. And what if I said “oh really” and you said “want me to prove I won’t wiggle no matter what you do, Daddy?” And I said, “ok, tigerlily…”
Well.. I mean… I’d have exactly zero interest in telling you either to wiggle or to stand perfectly still, would I? That would ruin the whole game if I did that, wouldn’t it?!?! It would practically be cheating!
And so if chose to stand like a little statue and I chose to bunch all your hair in my big, strong fist and lift it out of the way so I could kiss your neck and ears and shoulders…
Well, who’d be doing all the “discipline” then? I mean, sooner or later you’d submit with a lower-case s, but you’d be submitting to yourself, wouldn’t you? And I suppose you could call it lower-case d domination if I was trying to break your self-discipline.
But it would alllll still be 100% non-D/S D/Lg play, wouldn’t it?
And want to know something else too? It would make you really, really horny too, wouldn’t it?
Yeah, yeah, once you’re completely bound and helpless I suppose I could flog you or gag you with my dick or drip hot wax on you or some other predictable shit like that. But there’s more than one way to make you writhe and groan. there’s more than one way to make you scream yourself hoarse. More than one way to turn you into a quivering, endorphin-soaked, puddle, isn’t there?
Love to see you dance, woolybear. Come dance for me. Till you’re too weak to move.
