Wolfforkitty
Itâs not to say thereâs no domination or submission in D/Lg, and itâs certainly the case that there can be discipline and sometimes even bondage!  But note the lower cases. Sometimes the question can be whoâs exercising discipline!
For instance, what if I mentioned that you seem awfully wiggly tonight, and you insisted you werenât. And what if I said âoh reallyâ and you said âwant me to prove I wonât wiggle no matter what you do, Daddy?â And I said, âok, tigerlily…â
Well.. I mean… Iâd have exactly zero interest in telling you either to wiggle or to stand perfectly still, would I? That would ruin the whole game if I did that, wouldnât it?!?! It would practically be cheating!
And so if chose to stand like a little statue and I chose to bunch all your hair in my big, strong fist and lift it out of the way so I could kiss your neck and ears and shoulders…
Well, whoâd be doing all the âdisciplineâ then? I mean, sooner or later youâd submit with a lower-case s, but youâd be submitting to yourself, wouldnât you? And I suppose you could call it lower-case d domination if I was trying to break your self-discipline. Â
But it would alllll still be 100% non-D/S D/Lg play, wouldnât it?
And want to know something else too? It would make you really, really horny too, wouldnât it?
Shall we dance?
We shall…