expecting-insanity:

New toy from Amazon!!

Because I’m almost as big a sex nerd in real life as I am on line i’ve somehow ended up talking to several people in the last few weeks who say this new design (g-spot and gentle clit “suction”) has been giving them the best orgasms of their life.

When I was a much younger man I was kind of, um, er, a resource friends and friends of friends who either weren’t having orgasms yet or had a hard time having them.  And while I’d still get a lot of proto-Daddy/gentle-Dom/topping satisfaction of working with someone to coax her first non-solo orgasm with soothing words and soft touches with my warm, strong hands, if this had been available I might have (reluctantly but still responsibly) recommended they try that instead.  

An old roommate once told my college sweetheart “damn, you could replace him with a vibrator and an encyclopedia.”  Sounds like this could have been that replacement. 😂

The same basic device seems to be available from a number of online vendors, from as low as the low $30s to the low $90s.  I have a feeling they all come from the same manufacturer and that the main differences are probably packaging, the control panel, battery size, and possibly motor quality.  

You can find tons of positive reviews of the brand that could also be the best seller on Amazon.  That one is cleverly named “Tracy’s Dog.”  You can see a bunch of reviews of that particular version at this no-affiliates, no-tracker link to Google: https://www.google.com/search?q=tracy%27s+dog+reviews

The one thing I can’t know is whether it would work for you too.  Since everyone’s different I’d never say “run out and get this.”  But if you do I hope it works fabulously!

Ok, that’s enough sex-nerd nonsense from this Daddy.  

I’ve never tried a pillow under my back or hips during sex but see it done a lot. Soooooo my question is, Why are pillows under the hips so important during sex or maybe what’s the point?

Oh there are a bunch of reasons why people do this!  I think the most common reason given is to create a better or at least different alignment for vaginal or possibly anal intercourse.  Another is that it can be more comfortable for some people.  Yet another is it can help if one or both of you have a bad back.  It can also be sort of a “presentation” thing since it can raise your naughty bits for looking, touching, or tasting.

As for the alignment business, depending on how you place the pillows you can increase or decrease the depth of penetration, make it easier for the partner with the cock to reach their partner’s g-spot, prostate, or other inner hotspots, it can create much better contact between one partner’s clitoris and the other partner’s pubic bone.  And, again depending on how you use it, it can help increase friction on a penis if more is needed, or reduce it if, say, one or both partners has a concern about “premature ejaculation.”

Plus it can just be for fun.  Or laziness.  Or variety.  Or…

My best recommendation would be to try it and see if you like it.  

Awesome if you do, don’t worry if you don’t.

stig12:

This has absolutely nothing to do with D/Lg… well… except maybe “put away your toys when you’re finished playing” but that applies to everything, doesn’t it?  Daddies and Littles can contain multitudes of turn-ons… just like all other fully-grown, versatile, autonomous, and kinky adults.

Just so you know.  (But he wouldn’t be much of a Daddy if he didn’t know you like them too, would he, snipperdoodle?)

Well-made leather goods need to be used regularly to keep their flexibility and luster…

princesskrissylou:

hoke53:

Maintenance day….

Yes please

Maintenance day!  As a formerly apprenticed journeyman leather worker it’s so nice to meet Littles and Subs who realize that well-made leather goods need to be used regularly to keep their flexibility and luster…

la-passion-de-salome:

Honey Birdette

please do not delete the name of the photographer, model or artist

Oooh!!!  Copper-plated buckles and fittings are so pretty!  And absurdly uncommon.

The Victorians who popularized bondage (and most of our modern fetishes including the intensely disciplined, orgasm-denial-kink “missionary position”) used black leather and nickel-plated metal horse and pony gear because it was extremely cheap, universally available, not because it was elegant, fashionable, or more erotic.  They were the Victorian equivalent of zip ties and duct tape.  

As a fan of bondage and a former professional leatherworker I’m always happy to see someone doing something (anything) different with leather.  Even if it’s just using copper to better match someone’s skin tones.

Daddy!  Did you say “tickle your ass with a feather?”

“No dear,” I said “You weren’t paying attention.  I said typically nasty weather.  But since you brought it up…”

It’s a beautiful photo but from on my big monitor it’s clear he’s distracted by something off to his left. Perhaps a cue from the director?

Again, not knocking the photo or anyone who’s liked or reposted it. I mean I sure wouldn’t have noticed if I hadn’t first tried to figure out what’s in his hands. Wasn’t till after that I noticed he’s not even paying attentyto the women in front of him.

And I doubt the editor or anyone else but me did either. And As a former professional leather worker I thought he might have been holding a nice whip!

Still. It’s a good lesson in the difference between real life and porn. And a good reminder not to do it like they do it in porn!