Are we talking for aches and pains, or âother purposesâ? As far as getting it off, you really canât.
Yup. Tiger Balm wonât come off with anything that wonât burn worse. This is one of those areas where the top damn well better have tried it on him or herself before trying it on their partner.
One of the earliest bits of advice I saw from @instructor144 – the one that made me sit up and say âpay attention to this guyâ was when he said a good top will apply a toy or tool on themselves, once, to gauge its likely impact. Â
This is important not only because it might hurt too much, but because it might not hurt enough.
Welp. Sameâs true with shit like Tiger Balm, mint toothpaste, and even raw ginger – theyâre all absorbed into the skin so no amount of washing is going to get it off. Water will often make the burning feeling worse! Thatâs awesome if youâre into it, and some people really, really are.
But, yeah, with Tiger Balm test and verify because no safewordâs going to make it stop.
Still want to be tied to a chair like this one day. Daddy should build one. ???? @racerboy629
Thereâs always something even an older, experienced top hasnât done before. But Iâm very clever with tools and very motivated to try new things. Whoâd like to be my magic wand and chair partner? How about you, snickerdeedle?
Lesson here is buy appropriate toys. If sheâs not into size toys and stretching dont buy that King Kong dong. ????????????????
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A good Sub or Little takes no shit when it comes to boundaries!
A 14-inch dildo isnât completely useless (though what was he thinking?) Depending what itâs made of it might still be good for a nice thuddy spanking…
Just thought youâd like to know. As is often the case, people who invent and/or patent something arenât always best able to (literally) capitalize on it.  âTeledildonicsâ have been around for a bit. Thereâs a phone app that will control a number of devices. And a few manufacturers add features to their high-end products. They havenât exactly set the LDR world on fire.
But as is often the case, once a patent expires people start playing around with the idea more. The price comes down, the sometimes-confining licensing limitations become moot, and even better, folks with different ideas who didnât want to hassle with the possibility of defending against a patent-infringement suit (however spurious) are free to try something new.
Anyone think anything will… heh… come from this?
Ok, admit I almost only posted this for the Dad-humor opportunity in the last sentence. But honestly this seems like a good milestone for sex toys.
[Image from a review by the awesome Hey Epiphora!]
So. Iâve been meaning to bring this up for a while. Thought of it while browsing a sex shop comparing (poorly made, radically overpriced) BDSM collars with (inexpensive, surprisingly sell-made) pet-store collars. I posted about that here.
Anyhow, ever notice how pretty much all strapons and Feeldoe-style partner dildos look more like gym equipment than anything youâd actually want to have sex with?
I mean. Yeah. Pegging and âpackingâ are stereotypically masculine activities. And… maybe?… itâs supposed to be only âdominatrixesâ and âbutchâ women who wear them? Â
But really? Are there really no cute, kawaii, lipstick, or femme women who like the idea of fucking each other or their boyfriends with something that looks pretty as well as feeling nice? [1]
Yeah, the plural of âanecdoteâ is not âdata,â but after chatting with a couple of friends who are pretty femme the answer seems to be that yeah, thereâs a market for pretty toys that isnât being addressed by the gym-equipment look.
[1] In her review Epiphora and her lover were not impressed with Feeldoe-type partner dildos.
