How does one “train” themselves to come on command? I’ve always wanted try being denied and coming when he says but, I can’t seem to control myself.

achthend:

instructor144:

Coming on command is a lot like the two people coming simultaneously: it’s a lovely concept, but not easy to achieve in the real world.

I’ve never managed to cum on command. I can deal with denial, but as soon as I receive permission it’s like I have to start from the beginning, and sometimes cannot teach climax until later.

This!

Ok. You know how to “come on command?” It’s super easy, actually:

  1. Have a top who knows you pretty well
  2. Who knows how to make you come
  3. Who waits till they’re sure your orgasm is inevitable and uninterruptible
  4. And says “come for me” when you’re coming

“When the people lead the leaders will follow.” 😊

Its not that it’s impossible. It’s that it’s not instant.

“You wanna come for me?”

Yes

“Does this feel good?”

Mmhmm

“You’re getting close aren’t you?”

Uh huh

“You going to come?”

Mmmhmmm!

“Gonna come for Daddy?”

Yeah…

“Gonna come?”

Uhhhhuhhhh…

“There we go! Come for me!”

“Good girl.”

Works like a charm, usually in three to seven minutes.

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