shussshnow:

Sweet and innocent i think not

Wait.  Both!  

One of the genuinely awesome things about kink is you get to be 100% 3-dimensional human beings with not just sex lives or kink roles but romantic lives, work lives, family lives, fantasy lives, social lives, political lives…

And one of the genuinely awesome things about being real human beings is that we get to express ourselves in more than one way. 

Your goals, my goals, our goals!

Think we can’t have both sunshine and daisies and leashes and collars?  Oh bookmark we can have both, can’t we?