Do you know of any DD/LG support groups that aren’t trying to dictate how to properly be a little? I’ve tried to join several but I don’t fit their “little agenda” :( It’s very frustrating.
itsshinycollectordestinyworld:
Holy shit this made me so sad to hear. I feel like fighting back against people who want to define everything we play with with exacting criteria so they can form little âI belongâ clubs and feelings is becoming a full time job.Â
Are there any DD/lg support groups out there who celebrate that people do little and Caregiver in many unique and subjective ways that neither need to be quantified, nor judged?
JD
Hmmm. Well. Iâm not a group *technically* but I am a motherfucking menace and when Iâm Big Iâm Very Big, so idk maybe Iâm big enough to be called a group – Iâm totally loud enough to be mistaken for more than just one Little anywayâŠ
I support DD/L and CG/L (and everybody else, in general) and I absofuckinglutely 100% support personal expression of fucking everything. No rules except one:
TO THINE OWN SELF BE TRUE.
So maybe? YMMV.
Also, what the fuck is a âLittle Agendaâ? And can you eat it – fuck it – use it to pay bills/buy shiny things? If not – then whatâs itâs purpose, please and very thank youâŠ.?
^My Big Sis, everyone. Mine! :-D *Is proud.*
My personal Little agenda mainly involves glow-in-the-dark, practical jokes, and scoring more time with Super Daddy. Iâm a real menace.
Iâm an admin for a sfw safe space for all littles on kikâŠ
Because if youâre going to play âmy way or the highwayâ about how other people do kink then youâre not kinky youâre compulsive.
Big caveat: weâre not talking about âacceptanceâ or âinclusionâ of underage Cg/L, let alone underage/adult-partner Cg/L, a manipulation many pedophiles and ephebophiles try to pull. Theyâre flat wrong, anyone who falls for it. If itâs not legal, competent, informed consent itâs not a kink itâs a crime.
But as with any kink, there are people whoâs compulsions and (psychological, non-kink) fetishes demand that things be Done A Certain Way and anyone who doesnât do it their way doesnât belong.
For instance there are people who insist D/Lg is a subset of D/S and must include rules and punishment. Conversely others insist it must be entirely non-sexual. Still others say the Little has to âregressâ to certain ages.
Thatâs fine if the group is very specific and clear about their narrow restrictions. But they shouldnât characterize themselves as the One True Authority for the entire category of kink.