submissivefeminist:

Boys are mean.

Heh. Denial is such a limit for me.

I know there’s way better ways of measuring sexual satisfaction and enjoyment than basic orgasm counts. And I know some people can’t come, or have “squib” orgasms, or have terrible drops when they do. And do they enjoy edging endlessly to actually coming. And I’m ok with that.

But if someone gives me puppy eyes I’m always going to say yes. If I tease you it’ll always be as buildup, not taunting.

Because, honestly, I don’t need a partner to make me come. I can do that myself. Therefore for me a huge reward of partner sex (as opposed to partner dancing or holding hands) is making you come!

And so gratuitously denying you might frustrate me more than it would you, kittycat.