I’m a gay male who just came across your blog, and oh boy have I came. Reading what you write, I get hot and flustered because the idea of being someone’s boy (even girl) is an absolute turn on. Lately, I’ve begun to capture my own femininity and understand its roots, in spite of working through the burdensome guilt and shame. Have others in their footsteps like me come/written to you before as well? Thanks.

Thank you for your kind words!  I’ve never had a gay man send a serious ask but I’m glad you checked in.  I haven’t mentioned it for maybe too long, but while I always use the shorthand D/Lg because I’m a hetero Daddy, there’s a whole universe of possibilities under the general heading of Cg/L (Caregiver/Little.)  And that’s really important because being an adult Little is a kink, not an age or gender or sex or orientation. 

Tumblr’s made it so much harder to search for kinks, but before the big stink last December it was pretty easy to find D/Lb (regular Daddies) and DD/Lb (Daddy Dom) blogs and posts.  And M/Lg, M/Lb, and all the poly, trans, non-binary, and even asexual/non-sexual Cg/L.

I’m sorry I didn’t keep track back when track could be kept.  I’d be happy to send you links.  But since I was a bit of an entitled pooter I’m going to have to ask my followers if they know of any great blogs or other gay and pan Daddy or Lb bloggers.  And while I usually don’t encourage it, in this case It’s ok for followers who have D/Lg and other Cg/L blogs to self-promote too. (Positive and supportive resources only though, please.  It’s ok if you just reblog industrial porn but it’s not very helpful when someone’s trying to explore and discover newfound kinks.)

Thank you so much for asking.  I was so, so happy when I discovered my own Daddy kink.  Going to wish you lots and lots of luck exploring your Little kink too.