On the rare occasions that I get dumbass anons, I just delete their messages, IP block them, and go about my day⊠but I got one the other day thatâs been on my mind and I want to address it.
(FYI, I did immediately delete their message and IP block them, so this is recalled from memory.)
So, it said something like âwhy do you post pictures? Are you a grown ass man or a little bitch whoâs thirsty for validation?â I just need you to know, anon (if youâre still out there), that youâre a fucking clown for believing and perpetuating that bullshit false dichotomy that itâs somehow less-than-masculine for a man to 1) want to feel handsome and 2) have that feeling validated by an outside source.
Fuck you, and Iâm happy to never hear from you again.
As if the only possible motivation women might have is being âthirsty for validation!â
There are about a million reasons someone might post a naked selfie, and yeah (cough*dickpics*cough) some of them arenât very healthy. But itâs just dire, misogynists bullshit to believe (not claim, believe) that the only two possible reasons a woman might do it are for âvalidationâ or, my other favorite, âdaddy issues.â
Not to be too fussy but, you know, exhibitionism is itâs own autonomous, independent kink. Some people just get off on showing people their naughty bits. To the best of my knowledge, none of the sexes nor any genders, orientations, or identities have a monopoly on that particular kink.
Donât know what to tell you, but calling someone âa little bitch whoâs thirsty for validationâ says waaaaayyyy more about the accuser than it does about the accused.
