Know the Difference
If you think you are “forcing” someone to submit, You are wrong. One may give in to your superior brute strength- but that is not submission.
Submission can not be forced. One only submits of their free will.
Some people just want a person to “give in”. But the brilliant ones know the difference. They know the value of the submission. They are willing to work for the trust, the passion, the utter commitment that a submissive has.
True submission is incredibly beautiful while giving in is incredibly sad. It’s also the difference in our D/s and abuse.
*disclaimer- this is of course- all my opinion.
Seriously, kids!
Look. I can’t say this clearly enough: an empowered Sub is a better Sub! More responsive. Able to go deeper. Able to give more. Sexier. More into it.
If you can’t have a “no” that’s respected you can’t afford to give a wholehearted, no-reservations, completely trusting yes. It’s as simple as that.
