Why would you choose that when anal is super tight and I’ve been told men enoy tightness more?
Men enjoy a lot of things. Tightness is just one of many. Tightness can’t hold a candle to that sensation of feeling a girl’s cunt growing more and more slippery and hungry, of hearing those delicious squishing sounds as you pump, of feeling her juices slowly coating your balls, of hearing her moan like a feral animal when you growl in her ear “You dirty fucking slut, look at how wet your cunt is for me …”
Yeah, I’m not sure about that whole thing about “tightness” being the highest virtue anyway. Also, not to sound older or more experienced but both vaginas and anuses aren’t simply “holes.” Instead they’re both fairly complex organs with intricate voluntary and involuntary muscles. So depending on mood, circumstances, degree of enthusiasm, exhaustion, and experience both can be equally “tight” or “loose.” An experienced partner can squeeze you almost as firmly as they can with their hand.
But…
You ever tried to give someone a handjob while squeezing as hard as you can? Did he let you continue or did he say “woah, WTF?”
Again, “tightness” isn’t the best metric of men’s sexual enjoyment.
Another thing: while the entrance of the vagina, like the anus, are pretty muscular, that’s not true for either the inside of the vagina nor the rectum. They’re both actually pretty soft and “open” inside. So at least from a pure sensation standpoint both from initial penetration and while deep inside, what the man feels is pretty similar.
On the other hand if you’ve got both a vagina and an ass the sensations can be profoundly different. Which means strictly in terms of sensation an older, experienced gentleman (at least this one, and @instructor144 too it sounds like) will probably prefer vaginal intercourse he’ll agree to anal intercourse when politely asked.
Of course there’s more to it than the man’s sensation, isn’t there? For whatever reason we attach alllll kinds of taboos to anal sex. For some reason it’s considered naughtier, nastier, more “wild,” or more submissive when you… well… submit to it. And since it can be more painful (hey, a lot of women find vaginal penetration painful too though) it’s also considered more exotic, or rare, or a bigger “score” for some men if they can get you to let them do it.
Nothing wrong with that. Not particularly.
So sometime in the 1800s someone – often Mark Twain – is quoted as saying if peanuts were rare and sturgeon abundant, the upper crust would put peanut butter on their canapes instead of caviar.
That’s sort of how I feel about anal vs. vaginal sex: if anal sex was the universal standard then the same doodledoms who now go on and on about anal would be singing the praises of vaginas as the “ultimate” in tightness.
Again, if you have a vagina as well as an anus then you might feel there’s a big difference. But from your partner’s perspective it’s going to be way more about scarcity and drama than the actual physical sensation.
If you’re a man your mileage may, of course, vary. But I bet it doesn’t vary much.
