Wait! How does YOUR sweetie chill with you when you’re watching shows? If we weren’t playing hold-still games we couldn’t call it “chilling,” could we, skylight?
You ever stop to think how much women enjoy being kissed deeply and passionately? How much they love when you nibble their ears, kiss their neck, swirl their breasts and nipples, and especially when you make them come again and again on your tongue?
Women generally love when you do those things, don’t they? (If you don’t answer “yes” then we need to have another conversation first, ok? So just say “yes.”)
Now. Do you ever look in the mirror while you’re brushing your teeth, stick out your tongue and say “yeah, babes love tongues so lemme just grab my cell phone here and take a nice, juicy closeup of my tongue and send it to a buncha women!”
No? You wouldn’t do that? C’mon! What could be a bigger, hotter turnon than seeing a closeup of a nice, fat, hard tongue?
No? Yeah, that would be really stupid, wouldn’t it?
Cause women might love kissing you and being kissed. And my but they enjoy being licked! But even if you really can lick your eyebrows we both know they’re going to be more interested in feeling it than, you know, seeing it. And if they want to see it at all they’re going to be way more interested in seeing it in the context of your lips, your face, your eyes, and especially the way you smile out of genuine happiness to see them, or smirk like a cat who’s about to eat a very enthusiastic canary.
Just your tongue though? Nothing but your tongue? Ironically a tongue in isolation doesn’t say shit!
It’s the same with dicks. Someone might love what you can do with your tongue, but they don’t want to watch you brush your teeth, right? They may love what you can do with your dick, and they very likely love what they can do to your dick with their tongue! But a dick by itself, like a tongue by itself, doesn’t say shit either.
Hands though? Women see our hands and forearms all the time. When we roll up our sleeves? It’s a little like when they lean over just enough for you to see a little cleavage.
When they see our hands? Well. Fair or unfair it’s just a lot easier to imagine all the things someone might do with their hands, isn’t it? Dicks though? Eh. Dicks are just a really nice bump to rub up against in the context of your whole body… preferably while your big, strong hands are firmly gripping their hips to help steady, support, and guide them.
If you’re going to send any body parts besides your face? Send hand and forearm pics. Wait for them to ask to see (or hold, or kiss, or sit on) your tongue. Or dick.
Running my hands through your hair like this would feel so wonderful, pie tin. But the other things Tumbler wouldn’t want to see makes it even nicer, doesn’t it?
Boys your age might mock you for desperately rubbing and humping against anything you can, my dear, but an older, experienced Daddy understands that his adorable, eager new puppy just needs to wag her tail in his lap, doesn’t he?
There’s room for two, isn’t there? Ooh, wouldn’t those big cushiony arms feel good on the backs of your knees? And if you were bent over the back it wouldn’t bruise your little hipbones a bit, would it? And wouldn’t the soft leather look and smell wonderful when your face was pushed into the cushions?
Not that I’d ever do anything like that! Of course not! But if you were allll snuggled up in my lap I’m sure neither of us would be… wondering… thinking… daydreaming about such things, would we, tigerstripe?
Don’t you think it’s only natural that an older, experienced Daddy would be particularly fond of Littles who like to grind their stuffies. Or their Daddies thighs or laps or…
Men enjoy a lot of things. Tightness is just one of many. Tightness can’t hold a candle to that sensation of feeling a girl’s cunt growing more and more slippery and hungry, of hearing those delicious squishing sounds as you pump, of feeling her juices slowly coating your balls, of hearing her moan like a feral animal when you growl in her ear “You dirty fucking slut, look at how wet your cunt is for me …”
Yeah, I’m not sure about that whole thing about “tightness” being the highest virtue anyway. Also, not to sound older or more experienced but both vaginas and anuses aren’t simply “holes.” Instead they’re both fairly complex organs with intricate voluntary and involuntary muscles. So depending on mood, circumstances, degree of enthusiasm, exhaustion, and experience both can be equally “tight” or “loose.” An experienced partner can squeeze you almost as firmly as they can with their hand.
But…
You ever tried to give someone a handjob while squeezing as hard as you can? Did he let you continue or did he say “woah, WTF?”
Again, “tightness” isn’t the best metric of men’s sexual enjoyment.
Another thing: while the entrance of the vagina, like the anus, are pretty muscular, that’s not true for either the inside of the vagina nor the rectum. They’re both actually pretty soft and “open” inside. So at least from a pure sensation standpoint both from initial penetration and while deep inside, what the man feels is pretty similar.
On the other hand if you’ve got both a vagina and an ass the sensations can be profoundly different. Which means strictly in terms of sensation an older, experienced gentleman (at least this one, and @instructor144 too it sounds like) will probably prefer vaginal intercourse he’ll agree to anal intercourse when politely asked.
Of course there’s more to it than the man’s sensation, isn’t there? For whatever reason we attach alllll kinds of taboos to anal sex. For some reason it’s considered naughtier, nastier, more “wild,” or more submissive when you… well… submit to it. And since it can be more painful (hey, a lot of women find vaginal penetration painful too though) it’s also considered more exotic, or rare, or a bigger “score” for some men if they can get you to let them do it.
Nothing wrong with that. Not particularly.
So sometime in the 1800s someone – often Mark Twain – is quoted as saying if peanuts were rare and sturgeon abundant, the upper crust would put peanut butter on their canapes instead of caviar.
That’s sort of how I feel about anal vs. vaginal sex: if anal sex was the universal standard then the same doodledoms who now go on and on about anal would be singing the praises of vaginas as the “ultimate” in tightness.
Again, if you have a vagina as well as an anus then you might feel there’s a big difference. But from your partner’s perspective it’s going to be way more about scarcity and drama than the actual physical sensation.
If you’re a man your mileage may, of course, vary. But I bet it doesn’t vary much.
