Write this Down
Dominance is not about control over a submissive. Dominance is about leading and the submissive following. These words have been said thousands of times by thousands of people. I suspect it will continue to be said for many years to come.
Submissives do not seek people to control them. They seek a leader that proves time and time again that they are qualified to follow.
Mistakes happen. Wrong decisions are made. It’s how you handle those decisions that make you reliable and trustworthy.Once again… Ding
Always re blog this
So nicely said. It’s also not the case that “the Sub has the power.” It’s that in a real kink relationship you want to be there. Otherwise you can walk away same as a Dom can.
Not all Doms or Daddies get this. Not all Subs or Littles do either.
But it’s essential to real D/S and D/Lg. We’re both actively fulfilling our respective roles or it’s just abuse or codependence.
Dominance is leading as in ballroom dancing. In meta conversation as when off the dance floor we’re just us.
