milkyy-bunnyy:

This is actually my favorite kind of (mild) “degradation” because objectively that’s what’s supposed to happen!  And when we’re not in sex-space we can’t look back and say “did you really mean that?”

I’ve actually learned how to be more degrading if that’s what turns you on.  But afterwards I’m going to need a little aftercare too – cause even if you already know I didn’t mean it, I’m going to need to give you a lot of cuddly attention so that I’ll know you know.

In other words, it’s almost a boundary for me, and one I can cross with encouragement, but still the kind of thing that gives me the jimmies.  Because if I don’t like you and respect you and generally feel pretty frickin’ impressed with you I’m rarely interested in more than a warm handshake.

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