missingvirgo:

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Ahahah!  Yeah.  Here’s a little clue about topping people: before you can thrill someone else with your artfully brutal callous indifference to their wants, needs, comfort, humanity, blah, blah, blah, pleasure, and orgasms you kind of have to be able to prove to them (and probably to yourself) that you actually can do all those things.

Because if you can’t then you’re not a “Dom” you’re a thumb-fingered asshole.

Just sayin’