Remember you are not a real daddy dom if…
-you ignore your sub unless they are in some way sexually pleasing you
-you call yourself daddy while introducing yourself to a possible sub
-you assume that a ddlg/ddlb relationship is purely sexual
-you give out punishments for no reason other than for your own pleasure
-you make your sub feel bad for being in little space
For those that are baffled by this concept, try remembering that kind relationships are still relationships. And therefore all relationship rules apply. And therefore all non-kink relationship rules apply.
So!
Try this out: someone is not a real boyfriend or girlfriend or husband or wife if…
- You ignore your partner unless they are in some way sexually pleasing you
- You call yourself their husband/wife while introducing yourself
- You assume that all relationships are purely sexual
- You make demands for no reason other than for your own pleasure
- You make your partner feel bad for being into their own things
Wow, right? Someone who did all those things would be a really shitty boyfriend wouldn’t they?!??! Or girlfriend. In fact, “boyfriend” wouldn’t even be accurate because you really wouldn’t even be friends, period!
Now. Add kink rules on top of those rules and suddenly @probl3maticprincess‘s rules make total, perfect, 100% sense, don’t they?
Nothing wrong with sex-only bag-over-your-heads hookups if that’s all either of you want, and the same for kink-only hookups too. It’s BDSM, sure, and that’s totally fine! But just like you wouldn’t call it a relationship if you were vanilla, don’t call yourself a real Dom or Daddy if you don’t also do real Dom and Daddy things.
