i want a partner who would let me suck on their dick/toy lazily just because i want something in my mouth at the moment. playing a game? gimme please, i won’t be in your way. reading? i’ll look awful cute by your lamp light just beyond the edge of your page. lounging in bed? your tummy is soft to lay my head on so you can play with my hair and doze while you’re in my mouth. it’s a win-win, truly.
This is so me, isn’t it Sir?
When I was a young man blowjobs were Just Not Done. It wasn’t just that “proper ladies” did no such thing. (At least in the English speaking world.) It’s that men who wanted blowjobs were suspected “latent homosexuality!”
There’s a pretty wild police report from Australia in the 1960s, not only did a gang of women sex workers beat up other sex workers who’d agree to give blowjobs, another group beat up a customer who asked for one!
Oddly, going down on women didn’t have that stigma either for women who received it or men who gave. Which is awesome because I adore going down on my partners. It was one of my earliest sex fantasies. I daydream about it often. And while boundaries are still boundaries, I’m always profoundly disappointed when a partner doesn’t want me to go down on her.
And if I enjoy going down on you then it shouldn’t be a surprise if you, like @agenderkitten, would be as into going down on me.
Yeah, it can be hot and heavy. But it’s also lovely when it’s slow, lazy, and as much for comfort as coming.
