leadhership:

A Dominant Gives Their Submissive Leadership Through The Storms Of Life

If you think this isn’t just as true for tops as bottoms you’re missing the point of power exchange.

Based on decades of professional experience as a trainer and instructor, Paulo Freire was right that education can’t happen between adults if the instructor has nothing to learn from his or her students.

This is true for kink too. No matter how much older or more experienced, I’ve always learned cool and amazing things from, about, and with the people who’ve partnered with me.