Things Daddies should do for their Littles
.I’m really over seeing all of the fake sickos out there labeling themselves as “Daddies”. It’s really dangerous and harmful to littles, who make themselves so vulnerable and impressionable.
These are the things REAL daddies do.
-say Goodnight/ Good Morning every single day
-Pick out or help pick out pajamas.
-Order for your little or help them decide and help them tell the server at restaurants.
-Buckle her in when you go for car rides/remind her to do so if you’re not there.
-Brush her hair
-Support all of her big space goals/ventures
-Play silly games with her.
– Make, or help her make, her meals when possible.
-Take her on adventures.
-Kiss her owies and her boo boo lip when she’s sad/hurt.
-Tie her shoes.
-Give her a chore chart, and stick to it!
-Turn on her favorite cartoons/Disney Movies.
-Remind her that she’s yours.
-Know all her stuffies’ names.
-Tuck her in at night.
-Read/tell her stories whenever she needs them.
-Open doors for her.
-Reach things stowed in high cabinets/shelves.
-Make sure all expectations and consequences are enumerated in RULES
-Color WITH her. Don’t just watch unless that’s what she asks for.
-Let her know when it’s naptime/bedtime (and don’t fall for the little voice/puppy dog eyes like me when she tries to get out of it).
-Baby her when she’s sick or depressed.
-Use your daddy voice.
-Bring her surprises.
-Help her get into little space when she’s having a hard day.
-Bathe her.
-Hold her hand in public places.
-Make a big deal about all her accomplishments, no matter how small.
-Refill her sippy cup.
-Call her adorable pet names (princess, babygirl, kitten, little one, etc.).
-Protect her against all things big and scary (and adulty).
-Support and encourage her participation in the dd/lg community.
-Administer punishments/provide discipline when necessary and appropriate (or for fun!).
-Give her princess parts special attention.
-Fuck her like no other.
-AFTERCARE AFTERCARE AFTERCARE
**Daddy is NOT just a title used in the bedroom. 99% of being a REAL DD lies in taking on the caregiver role!!!**
DISCLAIMER: These apply for Mommies and Little Boys too.
None of us are perfect. Not all of us can achieve our goals. Including me. So I post these things not to hold you accountable but to help me be accountable.
“The universe is more likely to give you what you want if you ask for it than if you make it try and guess” — me.
