“She did things with him, things she never imagined herself doing. Things she hadn’t known she was capable of. Sexual things, intimate things, opening herself up in such a way making herself nothing but vulnerable in his hands. Not because he had demanded them, but because he made her want to.”
— ramblingsofacrazyheart ♡
“Not because he had demanded…!”
That, my dears, is how topping works.
A good leader makes their directions appear as opportunities to those they lead.
And yes, of course that can include rough play. If a top’s partner legitimately does. not. want. to something… if it doesn’t make them even more wet or hard to do it… including being “made” to do it… then why the hell would you even bother?
